There are two kinds of words; words that hurt and words that heal. We all do it. We use words like daggers cutting people down into bits with our tongues. The problem is once they pop out they can’t be permanently erased even after apologizing profusely.
When my kids were in kindergarten our curriculum had a special fun project we did to demonstrate the importance of using words for good and not evil. I would give them a band-aid to keep in their pocket. Then I instructed them to give it to someone else who was sad, hurt or upset. We used the visual band-aid to demonstrate the deep importance of using healing words, like the band-aid helps to heal hurts, so the words we use can heal, restore and bring balm to the broken. They loved it, (especially when I had Spider Man band-aids) because in their 6 year old minds, band-aids always make the boo boos better.
Words are very powerful things. The sticks and stones rhyme can not be farther from true, because physically words can hurt us, since our emotions and bodies are so intermixed.
We have a choice; we can choose to use our words to heal, like band-aids or hurt like daggers. It’s not easy controlling our tongues but with God’s help through prayer and a heart that desires to honor God in all we say, we can choose to use words that heal and in the process those healing words will be balm to our own souls too.
Much love and blessings,
Viv💚
Amen!! Amen!! I Strongly Agree!! May we allow the Holy Spirit to speak the Words of love in Truth. Many that yet not know the truth. But we pray that they will know that Jesus Christ loves them Unconditional, that He cares, and we care as well. Thank you Sister for sharing. ((Hugs)) Shalom!! Agape!! 🙂
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There’s so much power in our tongue!
Hope you’re feeling better!
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This is beautiful.
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This is sooo true! Words have an immeasurable impact on those around us!
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And that is why we must always speak words of healing. For there is power in the tongue.
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Thanks so much for the comment! ❤🤗
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There have been so many times when I have opened my mouth wishing I could shut it, but it was already too late. Great post! I’m so glad to see you! I hope you’re feeling better!! HUGS!!!
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Thanks! Mom sends her love to you! She is still on the mend. 🙂
– J 🤗❤😊
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I have trouble controlling my mouth too sometimes.
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oh yes definitely me too
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big hugs
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How are you doing, sweet Vivian? This post is soooo simple and absolutely inspiring. Love, love, love the Band Aid story. Thank you for all you write and share! 🙂
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Hi, this is Julia. I posted this for my mom; she’s still on the mend. She says she will respond to you as soon as she can. 🤗 ☺
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No pressure at all. Please give her a hug from me Julia. Much love and prayers 🙂
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Thanks so much. I will. ☺ *hug* 🤗
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YES! So true!!!!!! ❤ Important we are aware of the impact we can leave on others.
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Dear sweet, Viv!
I am glad to see you are at least improving enough to post again. Powerful…powerful post and oh, how Satan LOVES to provoke us to use our tongue for harm and not healing! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.
Are you up for a visit? I would love to see you and your children and learn more about what has happened to you health wise.
Also, what’s going on with your mom? I miss her. Please tell her hello for me.
Think of you often and those sweet years we all spent together. Much love!
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Thank you, Angie. Mom says to call her sometime soon. If you don’t have her number I will send it to you in a private message.
– J ☺🤗❤
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Vivian, welcome back! This is a very thoughtful piece. I love the idea of using bandaids to teach the kids the importance of using healing words. Lovely, thank you, Jordan
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I posted this for my mom. She’s still in recovery, but she thanks you for your friendship and support.
– J ❤😊🤗
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Wonderful words to share! Thanks and may God bless you!
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You’re a wonderful mom. I loved this. ❤
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Thanks Tina! Xoxoxo ❤❤
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I love the words that heal.
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What a good comparison to Band aids. This is great to teach children about kindness. We all need to be kind.
Wish your Mum all the best with her eyes from me and I hope she is getting the rest she needs and recovers soon.
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Can’t see your symbols. 😦
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so sorry they were just hugs and kisses much love Nicole
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Please let your mom know I am sending prayers of healing her way. Hope she is back to her old self soon. Great post by the way. The world could always use more kindness. Thanks for sharing. You and your family have a Happy Thanksgiving.
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Thanks! Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving as well.
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So happy to see a post from you! God bless you and your family sweet Vivian. Happy Thanksgiving! *HUGS*
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thank you so much Christy I am still on the mend my daughter had me a microphone that I can talk into my phone so I’m still unable to read or write BUT can talk to text
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Your daughter is so sweet! God bless your family! 🤗
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Happy Thanksgiving Christy
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Amen, Amen! What a precious activity! I love it. The power of the bandaid! I didn’t realise how truly powerful they were until the other day. I mean I’d seen what I thought was placebo power whenever I put one on a child who mediately stopped crying but I hadn’t experienced it myself. Last week I was quietly crying at the washing machine. Escaping the family. Someone had said something very hurtful to me and as the person who is meant to be training her not to say such things, I allowed myself ‘momentary despair’, before pulling my faith together! And as I did, my 3 year old arrived.
He said, ‘Are you hurt?’
I said ‘yes,’
‘I’ll be right back’ he said. He raced upstairs to the family first aid kit, pulled out a tiny circle band-aid and raced back down the stairs to me. Carefully he took the back off it and placed it on my forehead, as it stuck it felt like a tiny helmet of salvation. Then he took my hand and lead me back upstairs. My daughter took one look at me and burst into remorseful tears, “I’m so sorry Mum.” she said.
How good is God? I didn’t have to do anything to fix it, just accept his Grace through the kindness of a 3 year old. Blessed are the peacemakers!
It’s so lovely to read your words and encouragement again Viv. Bless you and, your young peacemakers too.
So much love,
L
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hi Lauren I am speaking into my phone and it is converting my words into text because I am unable to read or type at the moment this was absolutely beautiful moment that you had with your children sorry if my words are not space and punctuated but the talk-to-text is not very good I have been missing you for a long time and was wondering if we could be Facebook friends if you have a Facebook account then we can connect on messenger and I can do you voice messages that way we can talk and share if you are interested my Facebook name is Vivian Joy much much love
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I’ll look for you now!! I have messenger on my phone!
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Done, just a warning, I’m a bit random with my time on facebook, don’t be offended if I miss posts etc. Lots of love, L
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Wow, this is so true. Beautiful.
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l thank you so much and have a wonderfully blessed day
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I like the way you think. Thanks for sharing
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Thanks, Chrissy. What an encouraging compliment.
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Thank you for a great reminder! Only with God’s help can we tame the tongue! Hope you are well. You’ve been on my heart and I am praying for you. Merry Christmas Vivian!!
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Love u Cindy!! Healing but slowly. Miss u! 😍 hugs. Merry Christmas!❤❤❤
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